She's Gone Wrong...

Arrête, c'est ici l'empire de la mort.

I occasionally post pictures of dead animals/people. Feminist, childfree, atheist, pug momma. Fairly warned, be thee, says I.

She/her/hers.

I can’t put this anywhere else…

But I have to put it somewhere so here will have to do. This is a long one so bear with me.

I haven’t thought about my ex for a REALLY long time. We were together for nearly 3 years and it was a horrid, horrid relationship. He had a lot of issues and would use me as an emotional and on occasion as a literal punching bag. It was the worst time in my life.

We had nothing, literally nothing, hardly any money for food, gas, electricity nothing, I’m not being dramatic when I say that I had to beg borrow or steal to get by.

I was extremely stubborn back then, I could of gone to my family for help or my friends but I just wouldn’t, I was in this vicious loop of ‘I got myself into this mess, I’ll get myself out’ bullcrap, thinking that’s what ‘grown ups’ do, when what I should of been doing was asking for help. It wasn’t until years after we broke up that I found it he had money the whole time, he had credit cards, he hid them and spent the money on shit while I worried myself sick and had my home ripped out from under me.

It all came to a head one day when we were arguing, he was threatening to leave, I was hysterical (despite all of it, I loved him) and at that moment my mum rang. And I picked up. And I couldn’t hide it anymore. She and my dad came round, talked to me, helped me and I realised that I wanted out. He wouldn’t go without a fight so I did the only thing I could. While he went and had his strop, me and my mum packed all his stuff, my dad changed the locks, I dumped it outside, it was over.

I lost the flat not long after that. I couldn’t keep it up by myself and I moved back in with my parents. Went to college, sorted myself out, and one day, a couple of years later, whilst sorting out boxes, I came across some of his stuff. And because I was an idiot, I got in touch with him to return it, and arranged to meet up.

And there I was again, we briefly flirted with the idea of getting back together, I had loved him and I had missed him and it was familiar. And it was stupid. Nothing really came of it and we decided to be friends. I met someone not long after and he didn’t take it very well, whilst he was being all pally, pally with me to my face, behind my back to my friends it was a very different story. He would drip poison and malice about me to them, (I forced him to move in with me, I had given him a disease, trying to split me and my boyfriend up, that sort of thing) I knew nothing about this and it wasn’t until a concerned friend reported back the things he was saying that I found out.

I was furious and no longer afraid so I confronted him, he denied it all, claimed he was misunderstood and like a fool I believed him. It wasn’t until I found out about the money and realised that he was always and would always lie to me and about me for attention and that I couldn’t allow him that control, plus I was in a happy, secure relationship and I wanted to protect it, that I decided to cut him out completely.

That was 10 years ago nearly. And the other day, a friend shared a local news article. He has attacked a child in a local skate park, grabbed him round the throat, punched him in the stomach and dropped him. He has been to court (obviously) and because of his ‘clean record’ has narrowly avoided jail.

And I wish I could say I was shocked.

Posted on 23 July, 2014

Posted on 20 July, 2014
Reblogged from thetomska  Source apostateofmind

midgard-morningstar:

My kind were not made for such weather.

The sun.. il me perce comme un poingard..

Posted on 18 July, 2014
Reblogged from midgard-morningstar  

Today’s #tattydevine #busstopselfie #tattydevine  #redlips

Tagged #redlips  #busstopselfie  #tattydevine  

Posted on 17 July, 2014

#adopting the lolly dog was the best thing we ever did. I have a real soft spot for pugs and with the ever increasing popularity of the breed the dogs are suffering. Bred en masse with no thought for the health of the animal, more and more of these wonderful creatures are given up to rescue each year due to ill health or simply not having the time. The pug dog welfare and rescue association work tirelessly to help pugs and their families. I’d love to raise some money to help towards their vets fees which so far this year stand at £25,000. #doingmybit #adoptdontshop #pugs #pug #pugstagram #pugsofinstagram #uk

Tagged #pug  #pugstagram  #adoptdontshop  #pugs  #uk  #adopting  #doingmybit  #pugsofinstagram  

Posted on 16 July, 2014

Oh how I love #knitting these a-dorable #balloondog ‘s. I have a red one in the shop at the moment but I can do them in other colours! @thingswhatihaveknitted #thingswhatihaveknitted #knitted #toy #amigurumi #smallbusiness #softie #toy #crafter #crafty #craft #handmade #cute #kawaii
childfreehumor:

Don’t delude yourself into thinking you are “pro-life”.

Posted on 12 July, 2014
Reblogged from childfreehumor  

True dat.

Posted on 12 July, 2014
Reblogged from proustianrecall  Source sarahseeandersen

norma-bara:

the howling

Posted on 12 July, 2014
Reblogged from norma-bara  

Ok… A lot naughty… 😍 #tattydevine #tattychallenge #shells #beautiful

Tagged #beautiful  #shells  #tattydevine  #tattychallenge  

Posted on 12 July, 2014

I may have been a bit naughty in the #tattydevine sale yesterday #tattychallenge #mermaid #gold #mirror #lasercut #acrylicjewellery

Tagged #lasercut  #gold  #tattychallenge  #acrylicjewellery  #mirror  #tattydevine  #mermaid  

Posted on 12 July, 2014

All new items in the shop this evening! Move quick on the #unicorn s only 2 left! #crochet #lasercut #acrylicjewellery #necklace #brooch #handmade #etsy #linkinthebio #smallbusiness
I am rubbish at keeping up with challenges so I’ve missed a few days of the #tattychallenge now, I will try and catch up! I wore one of my own creations today, completely in love with this gorgeous #unicorn with a genuine #Swarovski #star on his bum! I’ll be adding him to my shop @thingswhatihaveknitted this evening. #lasercut #acrylicjewellery

Tagged #lasercut  #star  #tattychallenge  #swarovski  #unicorn  #acrylicjewellery  

Posted on 11 July, 2014

juststitched:

"Crocheted accessories are the best accessories!"

*shameless plug alert* Y’all should check out my storewww.etsy.com/shop/thingswhatiknitted

Posted on 8 July, 2014
Reblogged from juststitched  

dzamonja-swag:

rabioheab:

i think my neighbourhood deserves a sitcom because there’s

  • me, the teen blogger
  • a house with 8 nuns
  • a drug dealer who drives a hummer
  • a scottish man who only ever wears a kilt and mows his lawn at 3 am
  • an elderly couple who drive everywhere on their lawn mower
  • a peacock who has been roaming the neighbourhood for years and no one knows why or where it came from 

I’d watch the shit outta that show

Posted on 8 July, 2014
Reblogged from noimaginationstation  Source rabioheab


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